CHOOSING THE RIGHT PARTNER


 CHOOSING THE RIGHT PARTNER


• Is the family pressuring you to marry?


• What is your position in getting the marriage?


• What are you expecting in the marriage you are entering?


• You need to remain focus or people will bring you down in your own marriage.


• Don’t regret after taking a decision to marry.


In Choosing A Right Partner ;


 1. ANGER 


Can the man or woman stand hunger?

The partner might not reveal this to you but you must find out yourself.

How can you live with such partner? See a right counselor to advise both of you so you can cope with it.

If possible, treat hunger before entering into marriage.



 2. A FULL LIFE


How does the person wants to live his or her life?

If you want to live long with your partner, study the way he or she does things. One must acknowledge the fact that life before marriage defers from life after marriage.



 3. IS THE MAN OR WOMAN A GIVER ?


Is it because he loves you that’s why he is luring you with gifts? Or it will continue after marriage.

Make sure you don’t fall as a victim of gift.



 4. IS THE MAN OR WOMAN WITHIN YOUR LINE OF LIKING ?


One should try and compromise to each other by liking each other. If certain things escaped you from start before marriage, try and like them after marriage.

It could be that the man or woman you are marrying would bring virus into the marriage hence the need for an antivirus.

Who and what is the antivirus then? It is God.



 • Don’t compare your wife or husband to anyone. Especially to your ex.

You make a mistake immediately you compare your partner to someone else. The love will fade.


 • Listen to advice.


 • If you want to marry, be prepared to do marital things.


 • Don’t start something you can’t finish at the start of a marriage.


 •You must first know your expectation and know where and when you need it.


 • You will hardly find a perfect partner but you can groom a partner to your satisfaction and liking.



 - Counselor Tonny Yeboah

    Tel : +233 54 464 6695

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