THINGS WE MUST KNOW BEFORE WE SAY I DO

 

THINGS WE MUST KNOW BEFORE WE SAY I DO :

• Mothers partake in the well being of marriage.
• Marriage is a journey
• If we don’t take good care of our marriages, our living becomes difficult.
• Marriage is an institution which we go in without returning. It is a life time investment.

Things we must know before saying I Do Includes The Following;

1. Our expectation in that marriage :
Before you say I do, know your expectation.
Am I being pressurized to marry?
Peer pressure, family pressure, pressure from workplace.
• Do you want to only satisfy your lust?
You have already failed if you have the perception of marrying to stop fornication.
• Don’t marry because of the materialistic things you’ve seen associated with your partner.

2. You must know your temperament before entering into marriage :
Knowing your temperament will not put burden on your partner.
• How important is the upkeep of your partner solely about dressing.
• How do you expect your partner to dress?
Your physical outlook or being is very important in marriage hence partners must take a strict look at that.

3. What are our thoughts about kids and how certain are they?
If you are able to give birth in marriage, it’s a plus and if you are not, understand that God has good plans for you and maybe ending your generation.
Kids are investment in marriage.

4. How are we with each other’s family :
• How do we entertain the family of each partner.
Give your partner the free time to think.
Before entering into Marriage, you must know how to tolerate and receive the family of each partner. It is very necessary.

5. How stuck are we in our job and what will happen if one gets fired or wanted to leave the job :
What will be the stance of the marriage then?
Never marry with the assumption of someone investing in your marriage. No! Your marriage will collapse. You are expected to invest into you marriage at your own cost.

6. How compactible are you in your money stuffs and how will you handle finance whilst you are married :
Money collapses marriage most times so in marriage, partners must communicate their finances to their partners.
Hiding your capital from your partner will only result in quarrel hence partners must be willing to open up to each other about their finances in marriage.

7. How much do you talk about your relationship to others :
Marriage are being procured by mature minded only so why enter into marriage when you can not solve minor challenges confronting your relationship. You must know how to deal amicably with issues that will come at the marriage before you enter.

8. How do we individually collectively handle stress in marriage stress in marriage :
Partners must be ready to open up to their spouses more times in relation to issues confronting them so as to be assisted and released off stress. The more you open up to your partner with any issue bothering you, you will be helped with the best solution so that stress won’t overcome you.

Stay calm and never rush into marriage.
Marriage is a continuation of lifestyle.
Get a counselor, learn more and know how to handle stuffs before going into marriage.

The hotter the battle field, the sweeter the victory.

*⁃ Counselor Tonny Yeboah*
Tel: +233 54 464 6695

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