Counselor Tonny Yeboah

1. A SPOUSE WHO WANTS TOO MUCH SEX Some are married to a spouse (often times the husband) who wants sex regularly. This can easily make one feel used. Usually in such situations, the emotional connection is also weak. Address this by learning to do other things as a couple that don't involve sex.  2. A SPOUSE WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN SEX Some are married to a spouse (often times the wife) who shows no interest in sex, perhaps because of emotional strain, past wounds, hormones, negative view towards spouse or as a result of conflict. Address this by talking things out, open up, change contraceptives. Realize that love making is important in marriage.  3. A SPOUSE WHO DOES NOT TAKE CARE OF PERSONAL HYGIENE   It is a struggle to kiss, lick, touch, rub or even make love to someone who doesn't brush their teeth, shower, wears the same underwear for days or doesn't care about presentation. If you have such a spouse, encourage each other to shower together, buy him/her underwear...

  THINGS WE MUST KNOW BEFORE WE SAY I DO : • Mothers partake in the well being of marriage. • Marriage is a journey • If we don’t take good care of our marriages, our living becomes difficult. • Marriage is an institution which we go in without returning. It is a life time investment. Things we must know before saying I Do Includes The Following; 1. Our expectation in that marriage : Before you say I do, know your expectation. Am I being pressurized to marry? Peer pressure, family pressure, pressure from workplace. • Do you want to only satisfy your lust? You have already failed if you have the perception of marrying to stop fornication. • Don’t marry because of the materialistic things you’ve seen associated with your partner. 2. You must know your temperament before entering into marriage : Knowing your temperament will not put burden on your partner. • How important is the upkeep of your partner solely about dressing. • How do you expect your partner to...